Welcome to the forum! Glad to have you as a part of this community.
Right now, you can do this with a Dimmer Switch to control the light. They were designed for use in a non-neutral scenario. For the fan control, you would be interested in project windy city. Project hurricane is designed for people who have 1 switch to control the light and the fan.
My house has the same setup as you so I cannot wait for Windy City more than this personally. 