White Series 3 way - appear on, when not

I know there was an issue with the Aux switches with the newer firmware (LINK), so maybe there is a similar issue with using dumb switches. I know on my Blue switches, there are now Aux Detection Level and Dumb Detection Level settings, so check if those options are available to you (as you are using White and not Blue) and if so, modify the Dumb Detection Level setting to see if your switches start behaving better.